understanding the religion ideal of Christans

So i was born in to Christianity. after leaning some of the things I've have learned I am A BELIEVER of the LORD, Not so much a Christian. and here are some of my reasons.
The term "Christian" is used adjectivally to describe anything associated with Christianity, or in a proverbial sense "all that is noble, and good, and Christ-like."
According to the World Christian Encyclopedia (year 2000 version), global Christianity had 33,820 denominations with 3,445,000 congregations/churches composed of 1,888 million affiliated Christians.
Now if you look at both above think about the people you have met (and I am by no means saying this is every Christian) how many of them were noble, good, or even Christ-like. I find that most Christian feel they are better then everyone. always have time to judge, are to good for anyone else, push the bible in everyone's face so they can be the reason your saved,  someone asked 4 Christians what makes them so happy/good hearted 3 answered because I am a Christian and only one came back to say because of my LORD. Now looking at that I feel that Christians have there own idle (themselves). There is over 3000 different kind of Christians and why? Why do I need to be a Christian plus this or that? Do you think God loves you more if you have Extra labels next to your name?
I hate to tell you this (to those who just can't get around it) God loves everyone doesn't matter if your Jew, Catholic, Buddhist, Etc. He just wants you to believe and be good and honest to your neighbor. Why is it so hard to believe that He would just want happiness with the people he placed here?
So I say to those out here who this has touched God wants nothing but the best for his people and His people are YOU (Black, white, Jew, Catholic, ETC....) now I understand that we all have are own Ideas of God but doesn't mean we can't get along and love eachother! God would want that! 
'Love your neighbor as yourself.' (NIV, Mark 12:31)